Exclusive Laws of Ignoring, Silence and Attraction (ELISA) of woman for men

INTRODUCTION: * This article deals with a very valuable content which is of very high demand now a days. * It can be said, it is exclusively to men, because it is a corrective measure to guide a man to rectify his mistakes in a relationship and build, maintain and develop a strong relationship with the woman he likes. * These content are not meant to defame a woman or put woman in bad light, but it is for man to realise certain things which men does, that creates fissures among relationships. And this would embolden them to rectify the relationship. This is solely for the purpose of making a man perfect in a relationship with woman, thereby benefiting the both persons in a relationship. I). LAW OF IGNORING: * Everyone wants attention. Giving such an attention has a value. If you give too much attention, value of your attention decreases and your mystery fades out. Pay little, calculated, regulated and disciplined attention to your woman, only then your attention will become valuable to her. * Never be available all the time. A worthy man focuses on his own development first. * Ignoring doesn't mean detachment. It means setting proper time for personal development and relationship distinctly clear.

II). LAW OF SILENCE: * 'Passion' is created in 'absence'. That is why a man who always texts and is available to his woman is rejected by her. Because, he is not giving 'space' and 'time' for the woman to process her emotions and feelings. * Emotional Intelligence is a very important concept where we experiment, understand and manipulate another person's emotions, thereby achieving our intentions in a positive and progressive way. * Woman who value themselves, are not basically attracted to money or physical appearance, rather attracted to someone who is capable of 'entering their world of emotions', understanding them and serving them the right way positively. * By having a strong emotional understanding and connect with a woman, she naturally becomes addicted to you, because a woman only allows one such person inside her world of emotions. * She doesn't want to spoil her memories by devaluing her emotional world, but gradually submits her emotional world to one such person, who is capable of entering it. If you are capable of entering, then your the one person whom she wants, always in her life. * She have become emotionally connected and dependent on you, which is positively possessive. * If your woman feels shy and bends her head down or feels insecure to see your eyes directly out of fear that she would jump over you or cry out of tears, then it means she is complete your forever and you have won her heart for sure. * All these are possible, only when we remain silent and caluculatively romantic, and not to spill words and become anxious. That is the power of silence., winning hearts of woman, talking less.

III). LAW OF ATTRACTION: * A 'bold' message with make a woman think about you all day. Ex: see the two statements; - 'how are you? what are you doing?': is plain - 'apart from thinking about me, what are you doing?': is bold, confident and assertive. * Appreciate a woman eventhough you happen to lie, it's fine. Woman loves appreciation. But, we make mistake of appreciating directly. Appreciate a woman 'indirect' and 'poetic'. Ex: see the two statements; - 'you look beautiful': is plain - 'please be ready dear, God is looking for the most beautiful woman for me since I prayed for': is poetic and indirect. Such poetic and indirect appreciation will create expectations and curiosity in her again and again. Curiosity is a inborn weakness of woman. Making her curious about yourself, and making her expect what will you do next or text next, is the key to attract her inherently. * The more you are 'unpredictable', the more the woman remembers you. Brain remember only things which is unique and unpredictable. So being unique and unpredictable will create a sense of expectation and curiosity in a woman, naturally attracting her to you. * If you dump everything you have to her and become plain, regular and boring, she will never remember you, or get attracted to you, and will take you for granted as an option or will end up leaving you.

* BODY LANGUAGE: - A man should be confident and dominating in the very way he appear, walks and behaves. A confident man should always think that 'he owns the place' he stands. - By doing so, naturally you create a boss/alpha feel in the brain and it automatically feeds you the response in your postures & behaviours. - Being confident & dominating shows respect and power which cannot he shaken easily by any external diversions. Woman unconsciously look for this in a worthy/valuable man. * SELF VALUE: - People don't respect those who don't respect themselves. - If you don't value yourself, don't expect to be valued by a woman. - If you value her more than yourself, then she'll never fall in love with you. - Men only talk to one woman, so easily falls in love and become dedicated soon. But when he has many woman contacts and relates with them casually, you won't be worried why that one particular woman didn't respond or text you. - Start being how a woman be like. Have lot of female friends and be very casual about it. By doing so, you will have power above woman. - Never keep a woman on a pedestal. By doing so, you inherently become subjugated to her. - A man who keeps himself busy, consumes knowledge, evolves himself each day will create the sense of content to himself. Women wants only such man. * TEXT &VOICE: - In this digital world, chatting and talking with your woman is important. But, for that we should understand onething first, we are clearly not being physically present there in front of her, and simply in front of device which portrays us to her. Which means, a way you display yourself, creates the image to her at that particular time. - You can never expect a woman to chat romantic or erotic to you, when you have a spiritual, pious or strict quotes in profile picture and expect her to romance with you. - Profile picture is the first thing we need to look. Keep the profile picture, the way that she wants you to be, not what you want to express. To express yourself you can keep status, but in profile it's best to keep your own picture confidently displaying your face and attire. The picture must be capable of attracting her to think or imagine about you in a romantic way, by just seeing your picture itself. - Text her a very calculated and regulated frequency per day, but be dedicated to do it daily without fail. That consistency would make her expect and be curious on what you'd be texting the next day. - Never dump your thoughts into her chat like dumping rubbish in dustbin, be very calculated and precise in words. And very importantly, never annoy her. - Another very strong emotive thing is 'voice message'. Woman always have the tendency to hear the voice of her loved ones. First voice, then picture will arouse a woman. That is why woman like talking, moaning during sex and expects us to be so too. Therefore, regularly send voice messages or sing her, and make her expect such voices daily or at regular basis. Voice messages are the best proven method to arouse your woman. - An attractive and confident profile picture, calculated, regular and interesting texts which creates expectations and curiosity, and a strong husky low emotional bold clear romantic voice which explains your message crisp and clear very shortly within a minute are the best ways to keep your woman always expecting you in digital devices as well as wanting to meet you and see if the same are real in direct.

* INTIMACY: - Creating a sense of intimacy in the woman we like, is like renewing the license awarded to us. Winning her heart is tough, and when we do so, renewing it regularly and maintaining that win is the most hard process. It is achieved through intimacy alone. - Intimacy doesn't simply mean physical intimacy(sex). Intimacy means to not only to touch her body, but to touch her heart & soul. without even being physically present. - It is very tough thing is practise, to touch a woman's heart and soul, without being physically present. But when we do so, that is true intimacy. - To touch her frequently creates a sense of wanting step by step again. But, that doesn't mean she wants sex immediately. Remember this clearly, sex is the 'final process' in building a relationship, it is not to be the first and hasty thing to do, and if it does, the value of sex decreases to just physical procreation alone, and not of a contented one based on love. - Understanding her, entering her world of emotions, manipulating it to comfort her, create a sense of security and safety in her, achieving the trust of her, competitively becoming the first priority of her, being the leader of her in her mind, becoming her only hope and person eventhough many may leave her, and finally touching her and gradually winning her body, along with proper foreplay, ending in a wonderful sex, is the true form of love. - Confident personality having strong emotional connection as well as being sexually active and interesting(but gradual and slow) are the key characters to create, maintain and develop intimacy with a woman. * Therefore, the 'law of attraction' simply means to attract a woman not only physically, but in all aspects, by simply standing in one place. Attraction means not wandering about and collecting woman's attention, but the word attraction means to stand strong, and do your part, thereby attracting woman towards you. To be the most unique person in an environment where there is more than woman is a way to attract woman automatically. Because, woman generally likes unique men. While we being unique and undiverted even among a huge crowd of woman, will surely attract every woman's attention, by creating a curiosity of why he doesn't get attracted to her. Then, the woman takes a step to come forward to you, but when she realises a lot of woman are there, she competes hard to reach you and your attention. This same thought is applicable to all woman. Therefore, we can create a sense of competition among woman on who reaches you and get your attention first and always. Thereby, attracting woman wherever we go. This is the natural theory of 'law of attraction' of woman. * Remember this, 'woman are like shadows, the more you run after them, they will run away. When you focus on your development and be steady and walk slowly, the shadow follows you'. Make woman follow you. This doesn't mean to degrade a woman, but to make sure, man does everything precisely to achieve/win her, keep her and always be dedicated to her, by a win-win policy, without allowing ego inside.

DOES THE STATES HAVE TO FEAR THE BRAND NEW "UNION MINISTRY OF COOPERATION" ?

 

I). INTRODUCTION: 

Recently announced 'Ministry of Co-operative societies' under Amit Shah have been rising speculations and anxiety among various political spectrum, and is been pondered upon on whether this would also infringe on state rights and 'illegally' transfer itself the powers to conduct elections, audit finance etc in the societies in the states. 

Let us see what are the effects of this, depending on the existing legalities.

II). EXPLANATION: 

* First of all, 'Co-operative societies' fall under the direct control of State government only, and only they can enact laws and administer them. Then, where does the basic premise of justification for this infringe into territory comes from? It's as usual as the British rulers termed for in 'Doctrine of lapse' and most 'administrative reasons' which where lame. It's nothing but "inefficient administration" or "weakness" as mentioned in the Statement of objects and reasons in the amendment (97th Constitutional Amendment) which was brought by the then Dr.Manmohan Singh regime in 2011. 

* What is this 97th Constitutional Amendment? It dealt with issues related to effective management of co-operative societies in the country. It was passed by Parliament in December 2011 and had come into effect from February 15, 2012. It amended Article 19(1)(c) to give protection to the cooperatives and inserted Article 43 B and Part IX B, relating to them. Thereby, giving a Constitutional protection to the Cooperative societies, but there was a virus to it. 

* Any legislation involving the states, cannot be unilaterally passed and implemented. Therefore, the Gujarat High Court in 2013, have struck down certain provisions of the amendments, making 'ratification' of 50% from state legislature, along with the already present 2/3rd majority in the parliament, to enact laws for 'Co-operative societies' of State mandatory (acc. to Art.368(2)). But, this amendment doesn't say anything about the ratification needed (Art.368(2)) and simply infringes on state's law making autonomy. 

* The Union government, listed out their justification to call 'inefficient administration' of these societies, and pointed out some other reasons like delayed elections, lack of accountability, unapproved extensions of terms of office bearers and inadequate professionalism. So, the amendments came forward with some solutions like maximum 21 directors only to be allowed, fixed 5 year term for elected members and office bearers, maximum 6 months suspension period of a board of director and reservation of one seat to SC/ST and two seats for women on the board of every cooperative societies in India. Also, it mandates that, state should enact law, which falls under the 'framework' of union government's proposal. That is the reason, Part IXB was included so give a Constitutional recognition. That is, like Part IX (Panchayats) and Part IXA (Municipalities), Part IXB (CoOperatives) must also be in line with the Union government watch. The ultimate aim of the Union is to empower the Parliament to frame laws for cooperative societies functioning across the states, as followed now, i.e "Multi-State Co-operatives" only, and not the ones in state's jurisdiction, which is not possible. 

* In a recent SC Judgement, dated 21/07/2021, a three judge bench have upheld the 2013 Gujarat High Court judgement. Justice Rohinton Nariman, Justice B.R.Gavai, Justice K.M.Joseph penned the judgement in a 2:1 ratio. 

Majority comprising Justice Rohinton & Justice Gavai have favored the Union involving in 'Multi-State Co-operative societies' law making conformity, whereas clearly rejected the same into a state's society. Whereas, Justice K.M.Joseph dissented in a wonderful tone, placing that, "..Part IXB cannot be severed into two and making one (State societies) immune and the other (Multi-State Co-operative societies) subjected to Union's framework, because the entire part is that of the State, giving a clause alone to multi-state societies. The latter (Multi-State societies) cannot have an independent life, and if the part concerns to be infringing the states, the entire part has be to declared 'unconstitutional'".

Since the 2:1 Judgement was passed, as of now what Justice Rohinton and Justice Gavai told was penned.

III). CONCLUSION: 

As of now, depending on the Judicial point of view, atleast they have recognised that this Amendment of 2011 is partially unconstitutional. Which means it can be applied and been conventionally applied to 'Multi-State societies' till now, that is to be continued. But, when a separate 'Ministry of Co-operation' been established, it raises doubts about efforts to infringe on state's individual society also. If the current regime of NDA, sticks to the originally designed reform measure as intended by the UPA in 2011, then it is acceptable, because it would just be a reform on administration, rather if NDA comes up with it's usual vested motives implanted within, then it must be opposed strongly. Even if they try to take control or make to fall align, they can do only these; 

i). Multi State Co-Operative societies can be made to follow the union's framework 

ii). State's Co-Operative societies cannot be touched or made to fall into Union's framework, even if they do so, they need 2/3rd majority in parliament along with 50% ratification of State legislatures, which is not at all possible.  

"Of Course! English language is good.."

 

"Of Course! English language is good.."

1. English is Flexible. Only language to have less rules & more exceptions is English. We must be somewhat flexible to adapt to new changes & update at the same time hold on to certain high values deemed to be cherished.

2. Read, Listen, Speak & Write(RLSW) English atleast for some minutes daily compulsory

3. "Attitude matters": 

Right or Wrong, Speak boldly.  There is no levels in speaking of English, because it entirely matter of confidence. Start to speak confidently even if it is wrong & you will surely end up being confident, speaking right also. It shows that, being confident in what we do will improve us gradually.

4. "Use it or Lose it": 

Learn a new word each week. Use that word within that week in any form daily to get used to its meaning. This is the best way to learn vocabulary well and use it strongly in speaking regularly. This shows that we must make use of whatever we have to improve it. 

5. "Don't fear of making mistakes": 

While speaking, move on even if you make a small mistake. Because people will understand the bigger picture(meaning) of what it is. It's also similar to character of the English. You make a mistake, the best thing is to keep moving on not to make it next time, rather than stopping and worrying about the mistake we did.

6. "Speaking English is Teaching English": 

Speaking English means we are teaching English to someone who listens to us. Yes, we can learn English 'quickly' through Listening & 'strongly' through Reading. 

7. " Speak for yourself": 

The best way to learn is combine speaking & listening together. 

Speak a passage loudly, so that you can hear yourself. Practise, and this would improve both speaking & listening skills. 

Another example of combination of listening & writing is taking notes while lecture. 

Another example of combination of reading, speaking and listening is while reading a passage loudly. 

MUST READ ENGLISH NOVELS

"FAVOURITE 16 NOVELS"

* Middlemarch (George Elliott),1874 

* To the lighthouse (Virginia Woolf),1927 

* David Copperfield (Charles Dickens),1850 

* Oliver Twist (Charles Dickens),1838

* Tale of two cities (Charles Dickens),1859

* Bleak House (Charles Dickens),1853 

* Great expectations (Charles Dickens).1861 

* 1984 (George Orwell),1949 

* Animal Farm (George Orwell),1945

* Robinson Crusoe (Daniel Defoe),1719 

* Alice in Wonderland (Lewis Carroll),1865 

* Gulliver's Travels (Johnathan Swift),1726 

* Adventures of Sherlock Holmes (Sir Arthur Conan Doyle),1892

* Adventures of Huckleberry Finn (Mark Twain),1884 

* Adventures of Tom Sawyer (Mark Twain),1876 

* Dracula (Bram Stoker),1897

TOP 10 WORKS OF WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE:

* TRAGEDY: Halmet, Macbeth, Othello, King Lear 

* PLAYS: Julius Caesar, Antony & Cleopatra 

* COMEDY: Twelfth Night, A Midsummer Night’s Dream, The Merchant of Venice, The Tempest 

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