Wednesday 14 September 2022
Rights & Duties of Lay person(Laity) in Catholic Church
1. Lay person in Ministry:
* Acolyte:
* Exorcist:
* Lector /Reader:
* Ostiarius /Porter:
2. Lay person in councils in church:
* Can be a member of any councils in administration of their parish
3. Lay person in media
4. Lay person in clericalism
- Can a laity bless?
• The Catechism of the Catholic Church states, "Every baptized person is called to be a 'blessing' and to bless. Hence lay people may preside at certain blessings; the more a blessing concerns ecclesial and sacramental life, the more its administration is reserved to the ordained ministry (bishops, priest, deacons)"
• Catholic church says blessings are two types;
i). Invocative: Invocation of divine mercy, blessing, sanctification, through prayers by the gifts of Holy spirit, invocating through God the father, son and holy spirit. It is reversible and not permanently giving a designation. Laity can perform these.
ii). Contitutive: Permanently depute persons or things to Divine service by imparting to them some sacred character. Only priests can do.
• The blessing of a layperson upon another, such as a parent blessing a child, is an act of goodwill whereby the person implores God’s aid for the person; the value of this blessing in the eyes of God depends upon the person’s individual sincerity and sanctity
• In all, in bestowing His own blessing, God declares His goodness. We in turn bless God by praising Him, thanking Him for all of His benefits, and offering to Him our service, adoration, and worship. When we invoke God’s blessing, we implore His divine beneficence, trusting that He will respond to our needs.
• Another example recommended by the Book of Blessings is the blessing of a newly engaged couple by both sets of parents. Laypeople may also use a suggested prayer of blessing when moving into a new home, although more commonly the parish priest is invited to mark that joyful event.
http://www.differencebetween.net/miscellaneous/religion-miscellaneous/difference-between-deacon-and-priest/#:~:text=Priests%20are%20assistants%20to%20the,the%20church%20and%20the%20bishops.
https://www.ewtn.com/catholicism/library/rights-of-the-laity-1243
Exclusive Laws of Ignoring, Silence and Attraction (ELISA) of woman for men
INTRODUCTION:
* This article deals with a very valuable content which is of very high demand now a days.
* It can be said, it is exclusively to men, because it is a corrective measure to guide a man to rectify his mistakes in a relationship and build, maintain and develop a strong relationship with the woman he likes.
* These content are not meant to defame a woman or put woman in bad light, but it is for man to realise certain things which men does, that creates fissures among relationships. And this would embolden them to rectify the relationship. This is solely for the purpose of making a man perfect in a relationship with woman, thereby benefiting the both persons in a relationship.
I). LAW OF IGNORING:
* Everyone wants attention. Giving such an attention has a value. If you give too much attention, value of your attention decreases and your mystery fades out. Pay little, calculated, regulated and disciplined attention to your woman, only then your attention will become valuable to her.
* Never be available all the time. A worthy man focuses on his own development first.
* Ignoring doesn't mean detachment. It means setting proper time for personal development and relationship distinctly clear.
II). LAW OF SILENCE:
* 'Passion' is created in 'absence'. That is why a man who always texts and is available to his woman is rejected by her. Because, he is not giving 'space' and 'time' for the woman to process her emotions and feelings.
* Emotional Intelligence is a very important concept where we experiment, understand and manipulate another person's emotions, thereby achieving our intentions in a positive and progressive way.
* Woman who value themselves, are not basically attracted to money or physical appearance, rather attracted to someone who is capable of 'entering their world of emotions', understanding them and serving them the right way positively.
* By having a strong emotional understanding and connect with a woman, she naturally becomes addicted to you, because a woman only allows one such person inside her world of emotions.
* She doesn't want to spoil her memories by devaluing her emotional world, but gradually submits her emotional world to one such person, who is capable of entering it. If you are capable of entering, then your the one person whom she wants, always in her life.
* She have become emotionally connected and dependent on you, which is positively possessive.
* If your woman feels shy and bends her head down or feels insecure to see your eyes directly out of fear that she would jump over you or cry out of tears, then it means she is complete your forever and you have won her heart for sure.
* All these are possible, only when we remain silent and caluculatively romantic, and not to spill words and become anxious. That is the power of silence., winning hearts of woman, talking less.
III). LAW OF ATTRACTION:
* A 'bold' message with make a woman think about you all day.
Ex: see the two statements;
- 'how are you? what are you doing?': is plain
- 'apart from thinking about me, what are you doing?': is bold, confident and assertive.
* Appreciate a woman eventhough you happen to lie, it's fine. Woman loves appreciation. But, we make mistake of appreciating directly. Appreciate a woman 'indirect' and 'poetic'.
Ex: see the two statements;
- 'you look beautiful': is plain
- 'please be ready dear, God is looking for the most beautiful woman for me since I prayed for': is poetic and indirect.
Such poetic and indirect appreciation will create expectations and curiosity in her again and again.
Curiosity is a inborn weakness of woman. Making her curious about yourself, and making her expect what will you do next or text next, is the key to attract her inherently.
* The more you are 'unpredictable', the more the woman remembers you. Brain remember only things which is unique and unpredictable. So being unique and unpredictable will create a sense of expectation and curiosity in a woman, naturally attracting her to you.
* If you dump everything you have to her and become plain, regular and boring, she will never remember you, or get attracted to you, and will take you for granted as an option or will end up leaving you.
* BODY LANGUAGE:
- A man should be confident and dominating in the very way he appear, walks and behaves. A confident man should always think that 'he owns the place' he stands.
- By doing so, naturally you create a boss/alpha feel in the brain and it automatically feeds you the response in your postures & behaviours.
- Being confident & dominating shows respect and power which cannot he shaken easily by any external diversions. Woman unconsciously look for this in a worthy/valuable man.
* SELF VALUE:
- People don't respect those who don't respect themselves.
- If you don't value yourself, don't expect to be valued by a woman.
- If you value her more than yourself, then she'll never fall in love with you.
- Men only talk to one woman, so easily falls in love and become dedicated soon. But when he has many woman contacts and relates with them casually, you won't be worried why that one particular woman didn't respond or text you.
- Start being how a woman be like. Have lot of female friends and be very casual about it. By doing so, you will have power above woman.
- Never keep a woman on a pedestal. By doing so, you inherently become subjugated to her.
- A man who keeps himself busy, consumes knowledge, evolves himself each day will create the sense of content to himself. Women wants only such man.
* TEXT &VOICE:
- In this digital world, chatting and talking with your woman is important. But, for that we should understand onething first, we are clearly not being physically present there in front of her, and simply in front of device which portrays us to her. Which means, a way you display yourself, creates the image to her at that particular time.
- You can never expect a woman to chat romantic or erotic to you, when you have a spiritual, pious or strict quotes in profile picture and expect her to romance with you.
- Profile picture is the first thing we need to look. Keep the profile picture, the way that she wants you to be, not what you want to express. To express yourself you can keep status, but in profile it's best to keep your own picture confidently displaying your face and attire. The picture must be capable of attracting her to think or imagine about you in a romantic way, by just seeing your picture itself.
- Text her a very calculated and regulated frequency per day, but be dedicated to do it daily without fail. That consistency would make her expect and be curious on what you'd be texting the next day.
- Never dump your thoughts into her chat like dumping rubbish in dustbin, be very calculated and precise in words. And very importantly, never annoy her.
- Another very strong emotive thing is 'voice message'. Woman always have the tendency to hear the voice of her loved ones. First voice, then picture will arouse a woman. That is why woman like talking, moaning during sex and expects us to be so too. Therefore, regularly send voice messages or sing her, and make her expect such voices daily or at regular basis. Voice messages are the best proven method to arouse your woman.
- An attractive and confident profile picture, calculated, regular and interesting texts which creates expectations and curiosity, and a strong husky low emotional bold clear romantic voice which explains your message crisp and clear very shortly within a minute are the best ways to keep your woman always expecting you in digital devices as well as wanting to meet you and see if the same are real in direct.
* INTIMACY:
- Creating a sense of intimacy in the woman we like, is like renewing the license awarded to us. Winning her heart is tough, and when we do so, renewing it regularly and maintaining that win is the most hard process. It is achieved through intimacy alone.
- Intimacy doesn't simply mean physical intimacy(sex). Intimacy means to not only to touch her body, but to touch her heart & soul. without even being physically present.
- It is very tough thing is practise, to touch a woman's heart and soul, without being physically present. But when we do so, that is true intimacy.
- To touch her frequently creates a sense of wanting step by step again. But, that doesn't mean she wants sex immediately. Remember this clearly, sex is the 'final process' in building a relationship, it is not to be the first and hasty thing to do, and if it does, the value of sex decreases to just physical procreation alone, and not of a contented one based on love.
- Understanding her, entering her world of emotions, manipulating it to comfort her, create a sense of security and safety in her, achieving the trust of her, competitively becoming the first priority of her, being the leader of her in her mind, becoming her only hope and person eventhough many may leave her, and finally touching her and gradually winning her body, along with proper foreplay, ending in a wonderful sex, is the true form of love.
- Confident personality having strong emotional connection as well as being sexually active and interesting(but gradual and slow) are the key characters to create, maintain and develop intimacy with a woman.
* Therefore, the 'law of attraction' simply means to attract a woman not only physically, but in all aspects, by simply standing in one place. Attraction means not wandering about and collecting woman's attention, but the word attraction means to stand strong, and do your part, thereby attracting woman towards you.
To be the most unique person in an environment where there is more than woman is a way to attract woman automatically. Because, woman generally likes unique men. While we being unique and undiverted even among a huge crowd of woman, will surely attract every woman's attention, by creating a curiosity of why he doesn't get attracted to her. Then, the woman takes a step to come forward to you, but when she realises a lot of woman are there, she competes hard to reach you and your attention. This same thought is applicable to all woman. Therefore, we can create a sense of competition among woman on who reaches you and get your attention first and always. Thereby, attracting woman wherever we go. This is the natural theory of 'law of attraction' of woman.
* Remember this, 'woman are like shadows, the more you run after them, they will run away. When you focus on your development and be steady and walk slowly, the shadow follows you'. Make woman follow you. This doesn't mean to degrade a woman, but to make sure, man does everything precisely to achieve/win her, keep her and always be dedicated to her, by a win-win policy, without allowing ego inside.
Tuesday 13 September 2022
Caste in Christianity
Introduction:
* Caste system is a social hierarchy designed by schemers of a particular age for the sole purpose of ruling the entire society.
* It is on this motive, i.e polity, people was stratified and made to do their assigned works, alone.
* Caste system by itself, especially in India, has various theories in it. And each of them were made out for political ruling of the society, and maintain law and order.
* On which, caste was based on;
- By birth (Manusmriti - Brahmin, Vysya, sutra)
- Varna (physical colour)
- Priestly system (priests were made rulers)
- Occupation
- Ethnicity (aryans & dravidians)
* Therefore, in order to understand caste system, we need a multi dimensional approach, rather than a singular one, but finally arriving at the teachings of bible and Jesus Christ.
Explanation:
* At creation - God created Adam and then eve from Adam, and created humans and differentiated them based on 'gender'. He DIFFERENTIATED but didn't DISCRIMINATED based on gender.
* During propagation phase, that is, after Adam and Eve, their children started to inbreed among themselves, and God allowed it for a particular period, because there was a need for population increase. Afterwhich, God advised not to inbreed or propagate among same blood, due to health reasons. Distinguishing them from 'relatives' and wanted them to be individual/family. Here also, God DIFFERENTIATED but not DISCRIMINATED.
* Then God separated the entire humans to various part of the world, and each of them started to be termed as their own 'clan'. This time, it was based on 'locations'. Humans were spread to every nook and corner of globe to populate the world. So, they formed a 'clan' based on 'location'. Here also, God DIFFERENTIATED others from Jewish people, but didn't DISCRIMINATE anyone.
* Then, people were living acc to their geographic location. Geography decides wind & it's directions, wind decides rain, rain decides climate, climate decides cultivation, cultivation decides food habits, food habits decides the nature of a clan or community. That is why, "Rivers produce civilisations, and food decide their occupation, occupation classifies them as particular clans" . But, here also God allowed it, to DIFFERENTIATE but not DISCRIMINATE people.
* During phase of prophets and Kings, God DIFFERENTIATED people based on 'Prophets, Kings and common people', but it was not to DISCRIMINATE them, because God was on the side of common people and had mercy to forgive them eventhough they were disobedient always.
* After all kings and prophets, God finally decided that, a civilisation should be brought up, based on LOVE and love alone, not on RULING, OPPRESSION and VIOLENCE. (as Moses said to Joshua and handed over the people to him).
* Afterwhich everything started to change, based on LOVE. Then came in forgiveness and sacrifice. It was after Jesus Christ, people have been taught great lessons of Forgiveness, Sacrifice, Equality, Social justice which all are a form of LOVE.
* Jesus, vehemently broke all the above differentiation, present before like gender, relatives, family, caste and locations, exactly in order to prove that, he has come to the world, for oppressed and sinners.(Galatians 3:28). Paul also tells us to break all these barriers of social, cultural, location and gender based discriminations.(1 Corinth 12:13,27). Jesus accepted everyone equally and wanted everyone of us to be equal and treat everyone equal, because we are all inside Jesus Christ. Those who are inside Jesus Christ and his words, will never discriminate other based on gender, relatives, family, caste and locations and will support those who are in need like poor, oppressed people and sinners.
* The source of caste feeling in a human, is 'pride'. When a person is proud of something which he did, or he have or how he is, or what he own, that pride, makes himself to be the owner of his blessings. Pride makes a person think he is the authority of his life. If that is the case, God hates such a tendency. We have nothing to be proud of ourselves. We are filthy human beings, sinners, weak in front of God. We are zero, nothing do we have to feel proud of. And if in case we have something to be proud of, that have been gifted by God, and we should surrender ourselves to Jesus, and thank him for such a blessing, and not be proud of ourselves for anything. (Galatians 6:14)
Conclusion:
* There are accounts of caste/clan in the bible, but there is no account of discrimination based on caste.
* If we ask, do we have caste in christianity, yes! If yes, who created it? Clearly God didn't create caste or promote them. If God didn't create, then clearly caste is man made hierarchy for ruling purpose. If ruling the world and inheriting wealth here is the aim, then we are not children of God. Children of God, have nothing to do with caste, if they do so, they are not children of God.
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